Published: 11 March 2025
Mother’s Day, or Mothering Sunday as it is traditionally known in the UK, is a heartfelt celebration of mothers and maternal figures. In South Cumbria, as in the rest of the country, this special day is marked by family gatherings, thoughtful gifts, and longstanding traditions that have been passed down through generations. But where did this celebration originate, and how has it evolved into the occasion we recognise today?
The Origins of Mothering Sunday
The history of Mothering Sunday in the UK dates back centuries, with its roots in religious and social customs. Traditionally observed on the fourth Sunday of Lent, it was originally a day when people would return to their ‘mother church’—the main church or cathedral in their area. This pilgrimage was an opportunity for people to reconnect with their faith and their community, and over time, it became a day for families to reunite.
Many domestic servants, who often lived away from home, were granted the day off to visit their families. This rare time together led to the tradition of children presenting flowers or small gifts to their mothers as tokens of love and appreciation. Over time, the religious aspect of the day blended with this more personal celebration of motherhood, shaping the modern version of Mother’s Day that we cherish today.
The Role of Simnel Cake and Other Traditions
One of the most enduring traditions associated with Mothering Sunday is the baking of Simnel cake. This delicious fruitcake, topped with marzipan, was historically prepared as a treat for mothers during the Lenten period. Some families in South Cumbria still uphold this custom, with recipes passed down through generations. One of South Cumbria’s most respected bakeries, Ginger Bakers of Kendal, make an excellent traditional Simnel Cake for locals to enjoy on Mother’s Day.
The giving of flowers also remains a popular way to express gratitude and love. The countryside of South Cumbria, with its picturesque landscapes, provides an abundance of beautiful wildflowers at this time of year. Many children, both past and present, have gathered flowers such as daffodils and primroses to present to their mothers on this special day.
The Revival of Mothering Sunday
By the early 20th century, the celebration of Mothering Sunday had begun to fade in the UK, before it saw a revival thanks to dedicated individuals who sought to restore the tradition via local churches and community groups. This revival, reinforcing the importance of family bonds and appreciation for maternal figures, ensured that the day remained an integral part of British culture.
Mother’s Day in South Cumbria Today
In modern South Cumbria, Mother’s Day is a cherished occasion, celebrated with family meals, flowers, and gifts. Churches also hold special services dedicated to motherhood, reflecting the day’s historical and spiritual significance. At Holker Hall & Gardens families gather to enjoy special Afternoon Teas, including our chef’s famous Holker scones, followed by a stroll in the Gardens which are simply bursting with Spring life at this time of year.
While the way we celebrate has evolved, the essence of Mother’s Day remains the same—a heartfelt tribute to the love, care, and sacrifices of mothers. Whether through a delicious scone, a bouquet of fresh flowers, or simply spending quality time together, families across South Cumbria continue to honour this timeless tradition in their own meaningful ways. The team here at Holker Hall & Gardens always go the extra mile to make Mothering Sunday special for everyone – but mothers most of all.
Booking is essential for Mother’s Day Afternoon Teas at our Courtyard Café on Sunday 30th March. Call 015395 58328 or email info@holker.co.uk to book. For more information visit our What’s On page.